October, 2006

Kentut ?

Pooot, preet, prengg, ka-pisshh, creett dan pelbagai bunyi dapat didengar apabila seseorang itu kentut. Ianya kadangkala seronok didengar tetapi agak pening nak menghidunya. Walaubagaimanapun ianya dapat memberikan sensasi kenikmatan duniawi bagi para pengentut. Dikalangan lelaki ianya boleh dijadikan alat pengikat silaturrahim sesama spesis. Bagi lelaki kentut itu kelakar. Bagi perempuan tak tahulah. (sebab aku nih lelaki aku pun tak tahu). Okaylah di sini disediakan beberapa soalan-soalan lazim mengenai kentut. Sesiapa yang nak baca silakan…

Dari mana datangnya gas kentut?
Gas ini datangnya dari beberapa punca: udara yang dihirup, udara yang meresap ke perut dari darah, gas yang terhasil dari reaksi kimia dalam perut dan gas yang dihasilkan oleh bakteria yang tinggal dalam perut.

Apakah yang membuatkan kentut busuk?
Bau kentut yang terdiri dari sejumlah campuran gas hidrogen sulfida dan mercaptan. Lebih banyak pengambilan diet yang terdiri daripada sulfur, lebih banyak sulfida dan mercaptans akan dihasilkan oleh bakteria dalam perut dan lebih busuk bau kentut. Contoh: telur rebus.
Kekacang akan menghasilkan kentut kurang busuk tetapi dalam jumlah yang besar.

Kenapa kentut menghasilkan bunyi?
Bunyi terhasil disebabkan getaran di pembukaan dubur. Kekuatan bunyi bergantung kepada kelajuan pelepasan gas dan keketatan otot di dubur. Bunyi kentut bukan  terjadi disebabkan penggeleparan (flapping) pepipi punggung. Ini adalah suatu kesilapan.

Kenapa kentut yang busuk selalunya lebih panas dan senyap daripada kentut biasa?
Kebanyakkan kentut ialah dari hirupan udara yang terdiri dari nitrogen dan karbon dioksida. Oksigen pula diserap sebelum mencapai pembukaan dubur. Gas ini tidak berbau walaupun melaluo bahagian yang kotor didalam perjalanannya ke pembukaan dubur. Ianya keluar dalam bentuk seperti bebola (bubbles) yang besar dalam suhu tubuh. Seseorang boleh mencapai bunyi yang baik (pitching tak lari) dengan cara ini.

Suatu lagi ialah kentut yang dihasilkan oleh tindakan bakteria. Pembiakan dan proses penghadaman oleh bakteria menghasilkan haba dan pelbagai jenis gas tak enak. Bebola gas yang dihasilkan lebih kecil, panas dan mempunyai kandungan hasil proses tadi yang busuk yang lebih tinggi. Inilah yang dinamakan kentut yang nakal, panas, Silent-But-Deadly, jumlah yang terlalu kecil untuk menghasilkan bunyi tetapi mempunyai bau yang hebat.

Berapa kali seseorang itu kentut sehari?
Secara puratanya, seseorang boleh menghasilkan setengah liter gas kentut sehari yang dibahagikan kepada lebih kurang empat belas kentut sehari. Walaupun agak sukar untuk menyukat isipadu kentut yang dihasilkan, mengira bilangan kentut dalam sehari adalah lebih mudah.

Berapa lama tempoh yang diambil untuk kentut kita dihidu oleh orang lain?
Kentut tersebar bergantung kepada faktor atmosfera seperti kelembapan, suhu, kelajuan angin dan arahnya, berat molekul kentut itu dan jarak antara pengeluar dan penerima. Jika tidak dikesan dalam tempoh beberapa saat, ianya akan hilang ke persekitaran.

Namun ianya terkecuali jika perlepasan dilakukan dalam ruang yang kecil dan tertutup seperti di dalam lif, kereta atau bilik yang kecil. Tempat-tempat ini menghalang penyerapan ke persekitaran dan akan kekal berbau untuk tempoh yang agak lama sehingga diserap oleh dinding-dinding.

Adakah benar sesetengah orang tak pernah kentut?
Tidak benar selagi mereka hidup. Manusia juga kentut sejurus selepas mati.

Mengapa kekacang membantu seseorang itu kentut?
Kekacang mengandungi gula yang tidak boleh dihadamkan iaitu raffinose, stachise dan verbacose. Apabila sampai diusus, bakteria akan berpesta makan dan menghasilkan gas yang banyak.Bahan lain ialah seperti jagung, kobis, susu, roti, telur, bir dan kismis. Manusia tidak mampu untuk menghadamkan susu kerana intolerance terhadap laktosa dan produk tenusu mampu menghasilkan kentut yang banyak.

Adakah betul kentut boleh menyalakan api?
Betul, tetapi banyak orang cedera dalam proses ini. Bukan sahaja api boleh menyambar kedalam punggung, malah pakaian sendiri j uga boleh terbakar. Dalam suatu kajian dalam laman web Fartcloud, lebih kurang suku daripada bilangan orang yang cubamenyalakan kentut cedera terbakar. Ianya merupakan sesuatu perbuatan merbahaya. Jangan dicuba, anda tentu tak mahu, di hari kematian anda orang ketawa menyatakan anda mati kerana cubauntuk menyalakan kentut dengan api.

Adakah orang yang mencari rezeki dengan kentut?

Ada. Pernah tengok ‘Just For Laugh’ di saluran NTV7 tak lama dulu. Persembahan pentas dimana seorang lelaki menghasilkan lagu klasik dengan kentut.

Adakah kentut mampu membunuh? 
Menurut pendapat perubatan, kentut ti dak boleh membunuh. Tetapi menurut suatu sumber, dalam Perang Dunia ke-2, Tentera Udara USmenganggarkan sebanyak 1000-2000 orang mati disebabkan kentut. Ini disebabkan pesawat pengebom B-17 tidak ditekanankan (pressurized), jadi apabila ianya beroperasi dalam 20000 kaki, gas akan mengembang dan memecahkan intestine mereka.

Apakah yang menyebabkan rasa pedih selepas kentut?
Makanan yang pedas dan berempah.

Bolehkah kita menyimpan gas kentut didalam balang/bekas plastik.
Ini memerlukan eksperimen dilakukan oleh anda sendiri. Sila kentut dalam balang. Selepas 24 jam sila cubamendapatkan orang lain untuk menghidunya. Seeloknya ahli keluarga yang lebih tua. Kalau kena lempang tu adalah…

Adakah pelik bagi seseorang itu suka akan kentut?
Ianya sesuatu yang biasa bagi seseorang itu untuk suka kentut memandangkan semua orang kentut. Menyukai sesuatu adalah perkara yang sihat. Jika ianya memberikan masalah dan kemurungan, sila berjumpa dengan doktor.

Jika kita kentut dalam kolam, adakah airnya akan tercemar?
Selagi yang keluar adalah gas dan bukannya benda lain, ianya bersih. Ianya gas dan akan keluar dalam bentuk buih dan meresap kedalam udara.

Smelly

MOLES

Moles and what they say about you

The Chinese Almanac, also known as the Tung Shu, is commonly known as a book of auspicious and inauspicious dates, but there is so  much more to the Tung Shu than that. It is a vast mine of  information relating to astrology, codes and symbols, derived by the wise sages and philosophers of ancient China. In this issue,  we bring to you the secrets from the almanac regarding moles on  your face and what they mean depending on which part of your face they appear.

First, check your face for any moles, and then look at the diagram above to identify the number(s) that are a closest match to the moles on your face. Usually, the moles only hold meaning for you if they are prominent and they are the only one. If your face if full of spots, acne or "little" moles, they do not count. When you’ve ascertained which position corresponds to the mole on your face, look up the meanings listed by numbers below.


Position 1 to 3
As a child, you are somewhat rebellious and a free spirit. You have an innate creativity and work best when you are given a free hand. Generally, your superiors like your avante garde approach to life. If you have a mole here, you are far better off in business and being your own boss rather than working for somebody. What is promising is that you have the luck to be your own boss.      

Position 4

You are an impulsive person, often acting with a flamboyance that gives you charisma and a sparkling personality, but you can be difficult when there are too many opinions. You tend to be rather argumentative, but never to the point of holding grudges. This mole tends to give you an explosive temper and should you decide to remove it, you will find yours! elf becoming calmer and more at  peace with the world.

Position 5
A mole above the eyebrow indicates that there is wealth luck in your life, but you will need to earn it and work harder than most people. All the income you make must be carefully kept as there are people who are jealous of you who might attempt to sweet talk you into parting with your wealth. Be wary of those who try to interest you in get-rich-quick schemes. If you have a mole here, it is advisable not to be too trusting of others. Follow your instincts and be cautious. And never allow other people to control your finances.

Position 6
A mole here indicates intelligence, creativity and skill as an artist. Your artistic talent can bring you wealth, fame and success. It also indicates wealth luck, but this can only be fully realized! if you follow your heart rather than stick to conventional means of making a living. Success will come if you are brave.

Position 7
Moles under the eyebrows indicate arguments within the extended family that cause you grief and unhappiness. This will affect your work and livelihood. It is advisable to settle any differences you have with your relatives if you want peace of mind to move ahead.

Position 8
This is not a very good position for a mole. Your financial position will constantly be under strain because of a tendency to overspend. You also have a penchant for gambling. The only thing is you must know when to stop. Meanwhile, someone with a mole here has a tendency to flirt with members of the opposite sex as well as with the same sex. Better be a little discerning where you exert your charms! , or you might get into trouble.

Position 9
This mole position suggests sexual and other problems. It is an unfortunate mole and you are well advised to get rid of it. It brings a litany of woes and a parade of problems.

Position 10
A mole here just under the nose indicates excellent descendants luck. You are surrounded by family at all times and will have many children and grandchildren. You have the support of those close to you and will be both materially and emotionally fulfilled.

Position 11
Moles here suggest a tendency to succumb to illness. It is a good idea to have this mole removed especially if it is a large, dark-coloured mole. Otherwise use lots of foundation to cover it.

Position 12
A mole here foretells a successful but also a very balanced life. You are likely to be not just rich, but famous as well. But although you have every opportunity to live the high life, you will have a satisfying home and family life as well. Women with moles here are particularly lucky and tend to be beautiful and glamourous as well.

Position 13
Your children will be a big worry in your life. Your relationship with them is not good. There is nothing much you can do about this except to learn some tolerance.

Position 14
A mole here suggests a vulnerability to food which can be a big problem in your life. You may have allergies against certain foods or you may simply be eating too much.

Position 15
You are a person always on the move and constantly renovating and redesigning your house. You like to be introduced to new things and see new places. You are not happy if you remain in one place for  long. You enjoy travel and adventure, and have a very observant  eye.

Position 16

You need to be careful when it comes to eating, and also when it comes to your sex life. These are your two biggest problems. You tend to have weight issues which can make you depressed. You enjoy romance, sometimes with more than one person, but because you are a person with some morality, you will feel guilty about it and this will cause you much stress.

Position 17
You will be someone of great social prominence. You are active on the s! ocial scene and an excellent conversationalist. There is a  tendency to become bigheaded about your success, which could lose you your good name. This will affect you deeply because you draw your confidence and self worth from what others think of you.

Position 18
You are a person always on the move. There is a great deal of overseas travel in your life, but you should take extra care each time you cross the great waters, as your mole prefers you to stay at home.

Position 19
You have money luck and many good friends, so this is a good mole to have. Your weakness is that you tend to succumb to the charms of the opposite sex. In your life, it is this that could get you into hot water, so do cool your ardour!


Position 20
A mole here can be very lucky or very unlucky. If you have a mole here, you are destined either for extreme fame or infamy. You have great flair for creativity and are also highly intelligent, but your talents can be used for both good and bad. You are not a person to be trifled with for you are no pushover and do not forgive and forget easily. This mole is a mark of someone who will go down in history either as a great or as a tyrant.

Position 21
This is a good mole, as it suggests plenty to eat and drink throughout your life. This mole also brings fame and recognition .

Position 22


Your life is always happy and things go smoothly for you. You could well become a sports superstar if you have the passion for it. Moles at the end of eyebrows also suggest a person of authority and power, so! if you are the CEO of a company, you will do very well.

Position 23
You have a high IQ, and you are both brain smart and street smart. You have a highly-developed survival instinct and will lead a  meaningful and long life. You will be active until a very old age and will have friends and family around you till the very end.

Position 24
You will achieve fame and fortune in your young age and you are advised to use this period to safeguard your old age, as people with moles here tend to have a harderlife as they get older.

Position 25
You will enjoy good prosperity and recognition luck, but do be careful of excesses. Stay traditional in your attitudes and you will have a long and fruitful life . !

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If U Think About Divorce..

On my wedding day, I carried my wife in my arms.

The bridal car stopped in front  of our one-room flat. My
buddies insisted that I carry her out of the car in my
arms. So I carried her into our home. She was then
plump and shy. I was a strong and happy bridegroom.

This was the scene of ten years ago.
The following days were as simple as a cup of pure
water:we had a kid, I went into business and tried to make
more money. When the assets were steadily increasing,
the affections between us seemed to ebb. She was a
civil servant. Every morning we left home together and
got home almost at the same time. Our kid was studying
in a boarding school.

Our marriage life seemed to be enviably happy. But the
calm life was more likely to be affected by
unpredictable changes. Dew came into my life.

It was a sunny day. I stood on a spacious balcony. Dew
hugged me from behind. My heart once again was
immersed in her stream of love. This was the apartment
I bought for her.

Dew said, "You are the kind of man who best draws
girls’ eyeballs. Her words suddenly reminded me of my
wife. When we just married, my wife said, "Men like
you, once successful, will be very attractive to
girls." Thinking of this, I became somewhat hesitant.
I knew I had betrayed my wife. But I couldn’t help
doing so.

I moved Dew’s hands aside and said," You go to select
some furniture, O.K.? I’ve got something to do in the
company." Obviously she was unhappy, because I had
promised her to go and see with her. At the moment,
the idea of divorce became clearer in my mind although
it used to be something impossible to me.

However, I found it rather difficult to tell my wife
about it. No matter how mildly I mentioned it to her,
she would be deeply hurt. Honestly, she was a good
wife. Every evening she was busy preparing dinner.

I was sitting in front of the TV. The dinner was ready
soon. Then we watched TV together. Or, I was lounging
before the computer, visualizing Dew’s body. This was
the means of my entertainment.

One day I said to her in a slight joking way, "Suppose
we divorce, what will you do?" She stared at me for a
few seconds without a word. Apparently she believed
that ‘divorce’ was something too far away from her. I
couldn’t imagine how she would react once she got to
know I was serious.

When my wife went to my office, Dew had just stepped
out. Almost all the staff looked at my wife with a
sympathetic eye and tried to hide something while
talking with her. She seemed to have got some hint.
She gently smiled at my subordinates. But I read some
hurt in her eyes.

Once again, Dew said to me, "He Ning, divorce her,
O.K.? Then we live together." I nodded. I knew I could
not hesitate any more. When my wife served the last
dish, I held her hand. "I’ve got something to tell
you," I said.

She sat down and ate quietly. Again I observed the
hurt in her eyes. Suddenly I didn’t know how to open
my mouth. But I had to let her know what I was
thinking. "I want to divorce." I raised a serious
topic calmly.

She didn’t seem to be much annoyed by my words,
instead she asked me softly, "why?". "I’m serious." I
avoided her question. This so-called answer turned her
angry. She threw away the chopsticks and shouted at
me, "you are not a man!".

At that night, we didn’t talk to each other. She was
weeping. I knew she wanted to find out what had
happened to our marriage. But I could hardly give her
a satisfactory answer, because my heart had gone to
Dew.

With a deep sense of guilt, I drafted a divorce
agreement which stated that she could own our house,
our car, and 30% stake of my company. She glanced at
it and then tore it into pieces. I felt a pain in my
heart. The woman who had been living ten years with me
would become a stranger one day. But I could not take
back what I had said.

Finally she cried loudly in front of me, which was
what I had expected to see. To me her cry was actually
a kind of release. The idea of divorce which had
obsessed me for several weeks seemed to be firmer and
clearer.

A late night, I came back home after entertaining my
clients. I saw her writing something at the table. I
fell asleep fast. When I woke up, I found she was
still there. I turned over and was asleep again. She
brought up her divorce conditions: she didn’t want
anything from me, but I was supposed to give her one
month’s time before divorce, and in the month’s time
we must live as normal life as possible. Her reason
was simple: our son would finish his summer vacation a
month later and she didn’t want him to see our
marriage was broken.

She passed me the agreement she drafted, and then
asked me, "He Ning, do you still remember how I
entered our bridal room on the wedding day?" This
question suddenly brought back all those wonderful
memories to me. I nodded and said, "I remember". "You
carried me in your arms", she continued, "so, I have a
requirement, that is, you carry me out in your arms on
the day when we divorce. From now to the end of this
month, you must carry me out from the bedroom to the
door every morning." I accepted with a smile. I knew
she missed those sweet days and wished to end her
marriage with a romantic form.

I told Dew about my wife’s divorce conditions. She
laughed loudly and thought it was absurd. "No matter
what tricks she does, she has to face the result of
divorce," she said scornfully. Her words more or less
made me feel uncomfortable.

My wife and I hadn’t had any body contact since my
divorce intention was explicitly expressed. We even
treated each other as a stranger. So when I carried
her out for the first day, we both appeared clumsy.
Our son clapped behind us, "daddy is holding mummy in
his arms." His words brought me a sense of pain. From
the bedroom to the sitting room, then to the door, I
walked over ten meters with her in my arms. She closed

her eyes and said softly, "Let us start from today, don’t tell our son."

I nodded, feeling somewhat upset. I put her down outside the door.

She went to wait for bus, I drove to office.

On the second day, both of us acted much more easily.
She leaned on my chest. We were so close that I could
smell the fragrance of her blouse. I realized that I
hadn’t looked at this intimate woman carefully for a
long time. I found she was not young any more. There
were some fine wrinkles on her face.

On the third day, she whispered to me, "The outside
garden is being demolished. Be careful when you pass
there." On the fourth day, when I lifted her up, I
seemed to feel that we were still an intimate couple
and I was holding my sweetheart in my arms. The
visualization of Dew became vaguer.

On the fifth and sixth day, she kept reminding me
something, such as, where she put the ironed shirts, I
should be careful while cooking, etc. I nodded. The
sense of intimacy was even stronger.

I didn’t tell Dew about this.
I felt it was easier to carry her. Perhaps the
everyday workout made me stronger. I said to her, "It
seems not difficult to carry you now."

She was picking her dresses. I was waiting to carry
her out. She tried quite a few but could not find a
suitable one. Then she sighed, "All my dresses have
grown fatter." I smiled. But I suddenly realized that
it was because she was thinner that I could carry her
more easily, not because I was stronger. I knew she
had buried all the bitterness in her heart. Again, I
felt a sense of pain. Subconsciously I reached out a
hand to touch her head.

Our son came in at the moment. "Dad, it’s time to
carry mum out." He said. To him, seeing his father
carrying his mother out had been an essential part of
his life. She gestured our son to come closer and
hugged him tightly. I turned my face because I was
afraid I would change my mind at the last minute. I
held her in my arms, walking from the bedroom, through
the sitting room, to the hallway. Her hand surrounded
my neck softly and naturally. I held her body tightly,
as if we came back to our wedding day. But her much
lighter weight made me sad.

On the last day, when I held her in my arms I could
hardly move a step. Our son had gone to school. She
said, "Actually I hope you will hold me in your arms
until we are old."

I held her tightly and said, "Both you and I didn’t
notice that our life was lack of such intimacy." I
jumped out of the car swiftly without locking the
door. I was afraid any delay would make me change my
decision. I walked upstairs. Dew opened the door. I
said to her, "Sorry, Dew, I won’t divorce. I’m
serious."

She looked at me, astonished. The she touched my
forehead. "You got no fever." She said. I moved her
hand off my head. "Sorry, Dew," I said, "I can only
say sorry to you, I won’t divorce. My marriage life
was boring probably because she and I didn’t value the
details of life, not because we didn’t love each other
any more. Now I understand that since I carried her
into the home, she gave birth to our child, I am
supposed to hold her until I am old. So I have to say
sorry to you."

Dew seemed to suddenly wake up. She gave me a loud
slap and then slammed the door and burst into cry. I
walked downstairs and drove to the office.

When I passed the floral shop on the way, I ordered a
bouquet for my wife which was her favorite. The
salesgirl asked me to write the greeting words on the
card. I smiled and wrote, "I’ll carry you out every
morning until we are old."

HAKIKAT PERNIKAHAN

DAH SAMPAI SERU?

Ada banyak alasan manusia yang membuat dasar dari hakikat pernikahan,
hakikat yang seperti apakah yang paling membahagiakan?

cuba

kita lihat…dan manakah pilihan kita???

Jika hakikat pernikahan adalah kerana SEX, maka pasangan rajin
bertengkar jika servis di kamar tidur tidak memuaskan. Atau rajin hadir di SEX party.

Jika hakikat pernikahan adalah kerana HARTA, maka pasangan bakal bubar jika bangkrup.

Jika hakikat pernikahan adalah kerana BEAUTY/BODY, pasangan bakal lari jika rambut beruban dan muka keripot atau badan jadi gendut.

Jika hakikat pernikahan adalah kerana ANAK, maka pasangan akan cari
alasan untuk pergi jika buah hati (anak) tidak hadir.

Jika hakikat pernikahan adalah kerana KEPERIBADIAN, pasangan akan
lari jika orang berubah tingkah lakunya.

Jika hakikat pernikahan adalah kerana CINTA, hati manusia itu tidak
tetap dan mudah terpikat pada hal-hal yang lebih baik, lagipula manusia yang dicintai pasti MATI / PERGI.

Jika hakikat pernikahan adalah kerana IBADAH kepada ALLAH,
sesungguhnya ALLAH itu KEKAL dan MAHA PEMBERI HIDUP kepada makhlukNYA. Dan ALLAH mencintai hambaNYA melebihi seorang ibu mencintai bayinya. Maka tak ada alasan apapun didunia yang dapat meretakkan rumah tangga kecuali jika pasangan mendurhakai ALLAH

YANG MANA SATU PILIHAN KAMU ???

X Bererti…

x bererti kita x call org tu kita x ingat kat dia,
x bermakna kita x tegur dia kita x sayang kat dia,
x bermaksud kita x rapat dgn dia kita x pernah
fikir cara utk merapatkan diri dgn dia.

kadang kala org yg jauh beribu batu dgn kita,
org yg jarang call kita,
org yg jarang senyum dgn kita,
org yg kita jarang jumpa,
adalah mereka yg selalu dok ingat kat kita.

bersangka baiklah dgn Allah
bersangka baiklah dgn mereka
terutama mereka yg bersangka baik dgn Allah.

salah faham adalah lumrah dlm hidup manusia.
x semua org boleh baca apa yg tersirat dlm hati kita,
kalau kita x luahkan masakan mereka tahu,
x boleh expect org nak go after us each time,
sbb kadangkala org tu assume yg kita x mahu
diganggu walaupun hakikatnya kita mahu dihujani dgn..
soalan2 i.e bertanya kabar utk menguji…
sejauh mana org itu ikhlas bersahabat dgn kita
adakah dia hanya sahabat ketika ketawa
atau dia sahabat ketika mengalir air mata

mmg susah nak meluahkan sesuatu
terutama pada mereka yg kita tidak percaya
tapi x slh kalau kita membuang perasaan malu dan bercerita
mungkin mrk dah tahu cerita kita sebelum kita ceritakan lagi
tapi mereka tunggu kita bercerita sendiri
sbb nnt kalau silap tanya mrk akan dikata busy body
walhal mrk hanya mahu membantu apa yg terdaya

hidup manusia terlalu complicated
bagi mereka yg menganggap hidup ini
complicated dan hidup ini mudah
bagi mereka yg menganggap hidup ini mudah

manusia itu bersifat ikhtiariah…
boleh memilih apa yg dia
mahu sbb dia ada akal

andai kita pilih utk hidup dgn mudah
maka kita akan dpt hidup dgn mudah
andai kita pilih utk hidup susah
maka kita akan dpt utk hidup susah

andai kita pilih utk hidup sbg pejuang
maka kita akan berusaha utk hidup sbg pejuang

Allah sayangkan kita
Dia turunkan panduan Al-Quran dan As-sunnah
hanya mereka yg berakal akan menggunakannya
dan mereka inilah yg mendpt petunjuk.
ukhuwwah fillah

abadan

abada’…
Jika kau merasa lelah dan tak berdaya dari usaha yang sepertinya
sia-sia..
Allah SWT tahu betapa keras engkau sudah berusaha.
Ketika kau sudah menangis sekian lama dan hatimu masih terasa pedih…
Allah SWT sudah menghitung airmatamu.

Jika kau fikir bahwa hidupmu sedang menunggu sesuatu dan waktu serasa
berlalu begitu saja…
Allah SWT sedang menunggu bersama denganmu.
Ketika kau merasa sendirian dan menunggu teman-temanmu menelefon…
Allah SWT selalu berada disampingmu.

Ketika kau fikir bahwa kau sudah mencuba segalanya dan tidak tahu
hendak berbuat apa lagi… Allah SWT punya jawapannya.

Ketika segala sesuatu menjadi tidak masuk akal dan kau merasa
tertekan… Allah SWT dapat menenangkanmu.

Jika tiba-tiba kau dapat melihat jejak-jejak harapan…
Allah SWT sedang berbisik kepadamu.
Ketika sega la sesuatu berja lan lancar dan kau merasa ingin mengucap
syukur…
Allah SWT telah memberkatimu.
Ketika sesuatu yang indah terjadi dan kau dipenuhi ketakjuban…
Allah SWT telah tersenyum padamu.
Ketika kau memiliki tujuan untuk dipenuhi dan mimpi untuk digenapi…
Allah SWT sudah membuka matamu dan memanggilmu dengan namamu.
Ingat bahwa dimanapun kau atau kemanapun kau menghadap…
Allah SWT TAHU ……. Mungkin Tuhan sengaja mahu kita berjumpa dengan
orang yang salah sebelum menemui insan yang betul supaya apabila kita
akhirnya menemui insan yang betul, kita akan tahu bagaimana untuk
bersyukur dengan nikmat pemberian dan hikmah di sebalik pemberian tersebut.
Apabila salah satu pintu kebahagiaan tertutup, yang lain akan terbuka
tapi lazimnya kita akan memandang pintu yang telah tertutup itu terlalu
lama hinggakan kita tidak nampak pintu yang telahpun dibukakan untuk
kita.

Kawan yang paling baik ialah seseorang yang anda boleh duduk di dalam
buaian dan berbuai brsama tanpa berkata apa-apa pun dan kemudian
berjalan pulang dengan perasaan bahawa itulah perbualan yang paling hebat yang
pernah dialami.Memang benar yang kita tidak akan tahu apa yang telah
kita punyai sehinggalah kita kehilangannya dan juga benar bahawa kita
tidak tahu apa yang kita rindukan sehinggalah ‘ia’ datang.

Memberi seseorang seluruh cinta anda bukanlah satu kepastian yang
mereka akan menyintai anda kembali! Jangan harapkan cinta sebagai balasan.
Nantikan sahaja ia untuk mekar di dalam hati mereka tapi sekiranya ia tidak, pastikanlah ia terus mekar di dalam hati anda. Ia cuma mengambil masa seminit untuk jatuh hati pada seseorang, satu jam untuk menyukai seseorang, satu hari untuk menyintai seseorang tetapi ia mengambil masa sepanjang hidup untuk melupakan seseorang.

Jangan pandang kepada kecantikan kerana boleh jadi ianya palsu. Jangan
kejar kemewahan kerana ianya akan susut. Carilah seseorang yang
membuatkan anda tersenyum kerana ia cuma memerlukan sekuntum senyuman untuk
mencerahkan hari yang suram. Carilah yang membuatkan hati anda
tersenyum. Akan tiba satu ketika di dalam kehidupan apabila anda teramatkan
rindukan seseorang sehingga anda ingin menggapainya dari mimpi anda dan
memeluknya dengan sebenar. Mimpilah apa yang ingin anda mimpikan, pergilah
ke mana-mana yang ingin anda tujui dan jadilah apa yang anda inginkan
kerana anda hanya memiliki satu kehidupan dan satu peluang untuk
melakukan semua perkara yang ingin anda lakukan.

Semoga anda memiliki kebahagiaan yang cukup untuk membuatkan diri anda
menarik, percubaan yang cukup untuk membuatkan anda kuat, kesedihan
yang cukup untuk memastikan anda adalah seorang insan dan harapan yang
cukup untuk membuatkan anda bahagia. Selalu bayangkan diri anda di dalam
kasut seseorang.Jika anda rasa ianya menyakitkan anda, fikirlah ia
mungkin menyakitkan orang lain juga.

Kebahagiaan seseorang manusia tidak semestinya dalam memiliki segala
yang terbaik. Mereka hanya membu at yang terbaik dalam hampir apa saja
yang datang di dalam perjalanan hidup mereka. Kebahagiaan terletak kepada
mereka yang menangis, mereka yang terluka, mereka yang telah mencari
dan mereka yang telah mencuba. Hanya mereka yang boleh menghargai
kepentingan manusia yang telah menyentuh hidup mereka. Cinta bermula dengan
senyuman, mekar dengan ciuman dan berakhir dengan tangisan.

Masa depan yang cerah sentiasa berteraskan kehidupan yang lalu yang
telah dilupakan. Anda tidak boleh meneruskan kehidupan dengan sempurna
sehingga anda melupakan kegagalan dan kekecewaan masa silam.

Semasa anda dilahirkan, anda menangis dan orang di sekeliling anda
tersenyum. Teruskanlah hidup anda supaya apabila anda mati nanti, andalah
yang akan tersenyum dan orang sekeliling anda pula yang ak an menangis.

Never love a love that hurts……..

never hurt a love that loves !!!